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An update (with photos, of course)…

  • Andrew and I decided to try Carrabba’s on a date last week.  I had heard they had a gluten-free menu, but hadn’t tried it since Italian food mostly consists of wheat-filled pasta.  I figured they wouldn’t have anything good.  While their gluten-free menu isn’t extremely long, the Chicken Bryan is AWESOME.  And it didn’t make me sick at all!  Oh yum, so good.  Also, the garlic mashed potatoes are delicious.  We went there for our next date too.  But we can’t afford to go back for a while (Christmas kind of puts a dent in the ‘date’ budget – ha!).  Man oh man – I am craving it though!  :)
  • We had our Sunday School Christmas party at our house.  My friend, Karyn, and I made the invitations (which reminded me how much I miss scrapbooking!), and the party was tons of fun.  Andrew ended up missing most of it (he was stuck at work – :-P ), but he joined in on the fun game at the end. 
  • Justice started basketball practices.  His games will start towards the end of January.  He likes his coach and his team so far.  I like watching him play!
  • Darby has been loving her gymnastics classes!  I think she’d like to do them every day instead of once a week!
  • The kittens are SO adorable right now.  Here are a few photos that were taken on December 10th.  I am amazed at how much they have grown since then!!!  They are running around getting into things now.  Between 4 and 10 weeks is the CUTEST age. 



  • God has really been working in our family.  It’s exciting to see how He makes us learn and grow and how His Holy Spirit becomes more and more evident in our lives as we turn more and more over to Him.  I’m just in awe of His grace and love.  He is amazing.
  • I actually ate a piece of candy with corn syrup in it earlier today.  What is wrong with me?  That is SO unlike me.  I can actually handle very SMALL amounts of corn and chemicals, but I usually avoid them altogether.  But for some reason that york peppermint patty was just staring at me and I HAD to eat it.  It’s been a long time since I have craved a non-food item.  lol. 
  • Andrew and I have had so much fun doing all our Christmas shopping this year.  We have turned our shopping trips into dates.  We have so much fun together.  I’m so thankful for our marriage!

  • We are getting closer to Andrew’s deployment.  It hasn’t really sunk in yet that he’s leaving, but I’m sure I’ll cry when it does.  At least it isn’t a year this time!
  • Speaking of crying, I really hate crying in front of people.  If you have ever seen me cry, congratulations!  You must be special, because I will normally go WAY out of my way to NOT cry.  I have cried a couple of times in the last few days though – I am just so thrilled about some things that God is doing… it’s a little emotional sometimes. 
  • I love my family.  I love my husband. I love my kids. I love my life.  I am just so blessed. 
  • Question: Do any of you want to come to my house and do some construction/decorating work?  I have a big long list of things that need doing and not enough time/energy/money to get it all done.  I think time is the biggest hindrance to the progress.  First up: cleaning up all the dust in the basement (from the sanding) and putting the primer on the walls (I haven’t bought the colored paint yet, but I’ve got a huge tub of primer sitting down there waiting).  Any takers?  Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?  ;)
  • Paige thinks she’s a big girl because she can now eat things like cereal-with-milk or soup out of a bowl with a spoon without making a huge mess.  She’s adorable. 
  • I think I might work on one of my books tonight.  I’m pretty sure I’ll be an old lady before any of the books I’ve been working on are done, but hey – someone can read them in 50 years. 
  • I’m pretty sure I need to ask Andrew to go buy me some dark chocolate, because I’m very tempted to go eat another york peppermint patty.  The last one wasn’t even that delicious (your taste buds change when you stop eating chemicals and they no longer taste like food).  I  must just be hungry. lol
  • (while I was checking my spelling and proof-reading this post, I ate a reeses’ cup.  I figured at least it didn’t have corn syrup in it so it was a better choice than the peppermint patty.  It was so disgusting.  And now I have a chemical residue taste in my mouth.  Why did I do that ? So gross.  I need to hit Trader Joe’s and get some of their chocolate-peanut butter cups.  Those taste like real food!  And they’re delicious!)

Quick update…

  • Paige went to the doctor this morning for her 18 month old checkup, and according to her doctor (who we love, by the way!) Paige is perfect.  We already knew that though.  She had to get one shot today, but the nurse was fast, so while she did scream for a minute, she was soon fine.  She weighs 21 pounds (10th %), and is 29 1/2″ tall (5th %).  Her head?  It’s still large.  It’s 19 or 19 1/2″ (I can’t remember which) and that, my friends, is in the 90th %.  Tiny body, huge head. For that big brain, I presume.
  • Britta Cait started babysitting for a local MOPS group.  Today was her first day, and they meet once a month.  She had a great time.  She loves little kids, and she loves making money = a great combo. 
  • Britta also turned 17 last week.  More to come on that (and also I have photos from Justice’s birthday celebration last month.  Patience, young padawans, patience).
  • Have I mentioned how much I love my kids?  Yes?  Well, I’m saying it again.  God has blessed us so much with six amazing kiddos, I just can’t believe it most of the time.  They all show me and Andy such love and respect (absolutely no slamming doors or “I hate you”‘s in this house), they all want to serve God, and they all love spending time with us.  That may sound ‘normal’ to some of you, but I know a lot of people who struggle with their teenagers (and a lot of people who struggle with their pre-teens and toddlers too), and it just makes me so thankful to have loving, well-behaved kids.  They are not perfect, of course (no one is), but they are an enormous blessing to me and I thank God for them all.
  • Homeschooling is going swimmingly (pretty sure that’s the first time I’ve ever used that word).  I’m enjoying it, the kids are enjoying it – so awesome.  The kids are all learning (which is more than I can say for their previous public school educations), and our schedule is going great.  Total answer to prayer – all of it!!!
  • Construction is still ongoing.  Andrew finished building the walls in the main room of the basement (school room/office/craft area), and just needs to do one more round of mudding and sanding – then we paint and put a new floor in.  We decided on a laminate floor for that room and Brittany’s room after looking at cost, where it was in the house, how much wear it would get, etc… but we’ll put a tiled area by the back door since rumor has it that laminate flooring does not do well when it gets wet. 
  • We have gotten more involved in our church and are loving it.  The people are wonderful, the kids love it, and we just know it’s exactly where God wants us to be.  Awesome.
  • Britta is going on a missions trip with some people from our church at the end of this month.  They are heading to New York City to do some ministering to others.  Please be prayingn for them.
  • Jacob has turned into a social butterfly!  He used to be SO shy and just wanted to be with me all the time, but he has changed SO much in the past 6 months or so.  He just wants to play with his friends, invite them over, go see them, go to church, and of course… marry Katie, my friend Robyn’s daughter.
  • Aaaaand since I’ve been interrupted no less than 47 times since the start of this post, I’ll go ahead and close with a couple of photos from my brother Matt’s house… :)

Paige walking around Uncle Matt's house like she owned the place. :)

Justice and Tanner in the 'mud pit' at Uncle Matt's house - the boys had a BLAST!

Canyon, Justice, Tanner, and Chance

Poor Jarvis was sick on the mud pit day. :(

Jacob LOVED the swimming pool and hot tub!

Darby and Taylor :)

Taking turns on each other's shoulders in the pool :)

Taylor's turn on Darby's shoulders... so fun to have a cousin so close in age!

Britta apparently beating up Canyon. lol

More mud pit fun (that's Canyon and Britta if you can't tell)

Public Service Announcement #1

I have a friend (she doesn’t read my blog) who has a lot of health problems.  She goes to doctor after doctor and gets prescribed drug after drug.  The drugs cause more problems than they solve, yet she continues to feed them to herself.  I suppose she does this because the doctors told her to take them, although the drugs haven’t solved her issues yet (in fact, she continuously gets new and worse problems).  She goes through experimental surgeries and spends most of her time trying to find new ways to be able to function in her daily life.  There was a time she asked me for advice because we shared some symptoms.  I told her she needs to change her diet.  She refused.  She loves her chemical-filled foods and her disease-causing artificial sweeteners way too much to give them up.  She wouldn’t even give it a try – she said that it was too hard and after all, the doctors had told her she didn’t have any problems caused by food (allergies, celiac, etc.).  She’d rather listen to the doctors who aren’t actually helping her – they are helping themselves buy a bigger house, and they are helping the pharmaceutical companies who are the ones funding the medical research that the doctors are reading.  Their drugs are helping her with some of her symptoms, but are causing new ones, so she has to go back for more drugs and/or surgeries.  It’s a vicious cycle she just can’t seem to get herself out of.  It’s sad. 

A lot of Christians are just like her.  They have a lot of problems.  They go to psychiatrists, they read self-help books (sometimes even by ‘Christian’ authors), they try this or that or the other.  They are so focused on getting rid of the symptoms they don’t like.  The Bible suggests that they change their diet, though, and they refuse to listen.  They want to fix the obvious problems.  They don’t want to make any lifestyle changes.  They’re even willing to try experimental surgeries (divorce, [prescribed] psychiatric drugs, etc.), but give their entire life to God?  No can do.  That would mean giving up some of the things they like.  They just try to treat the symptoms, and fix one problem at a time in their own (useless) power, while continuing to indulge in things that taste good, but are essentially harming them.  Being a Christian means making changes though. It means giving God all of your life – not just the problem areas that you don’t want to deal with.  It’s a constant, daily discipline of surrending all to Jesus.  That’s when real healing comes… and trust me, it tastes SO much sweeter and richer and fulfilling than any self-help method known to man.

“And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.” (Luke 9:23)

 

Okay, so that’s just the name of a song I like by Pillar. I don’t actually have any secrets that I can think of. And my regrets are few, because what’s the point of looking back?

I have heard people say “I don’t have any regrets,” but I actually do have a few. I’m so happy where I am, and I know that I’m here because of the things that I’ve gone through that have helped shape and mold my character. I mean, I think back to ten years ago, and I was so shallow. And I didn’t even know that I was shallow. But I hadn’t really experienced the type of pain and then the healing that helped make me a bit deeper. Now I know a LOT more about love, forgiveness, mercy, grace, and Truth. And I have a real relationship with God that I didn’t even know could exist before. To me (then), God was there and He was real and I wanted to please Him – but I had no idea what that actually meant. Now (I think) I do. At least a lot more than I did. I know enough now to know that there’s still SO much to learn!

Anyway, back to the regrets: I made mistakes… like getting pregnant in high school, but I don’t regret that. I mean, of course I wish I had always been perfect (ha!) and never did anything wrong – but so many of the mistakes I made turned me into who I am today and have helped me not be so judgmental of others (something I struggled with for a LONG time since I was raised in an extremely judgmental environment). And plus – I got Brittany out of it!!!!!! And I cannot imagine my life without her, nor do I want to. Obviously, I wouldn’t recommend teenage pregnancy to a friend (or premarital sex of any kind) - there were so many consequences that came from that and the brief pleasure certainly was NOT worth the pain it caused later. Although having Brittany was a side consolation prize that made the rest of the pain bearable.  And I thank God for her!!!

And there are even some bigger mistakes (and many “smaller” – but who’s measuring?) that I made in my past, but they helped me learn and helped me help others (do you know how many women I’ve been able to ‘counsel’ because of the issues Andrew and I went through in our marriage?! A lot! And it’s been amazing being able to see God work through me because of what He helped me and Andrew overcome). There are a handful of things though, some things that were despicable and hideous, that did not help me grow, and getting through them didn’t help build up my relationship with God or anyone, that I wish had  never happened. But I can’t change them. So I do not dwell on them.

I’m not sure where that came from! I had that song in my head, typed out the title and started rambling about “regrets” – haha!! What did I even say in those last few paragraphs? Did it even make sense? Where am I??………

It seems strange that I don’t have any secrets. Surely there are some in there somewhere. I mean, I’m not going to go into detail about the handful of regrets that I have. lol! But secrets? I’m kind of an open book. I guess I know some secrets that belong to other people, and I wouldn’t share those with anyone, but my own – I can’t think of any.

I need to take some photos. Maybe today. I know my posts have been lacking in the photo department lately.

And that, my friends, was Random Rant #462. Enjoy my insanity.

:)

I think you all probably get the gist of the type of things I’m eating from the three days I spelled out my diet for you. I have made a couple of discoveries in the last few days, and am continuing on with the basics of the diet.

  • I added green tea back in, but haven’t had it every day.
  • I made an exception when I went on a date with Andrew the other night. We went to Qdoba and I got a naked burrito. I did not get any cheese on it, but I did get the rice and chicken and tomatoes in the form of pico de gallo. It didn’t seem to bother me at all.
  • Of course, with intolerances, unlike allergies, I wouldn’t necessarily have an immediate reaction from eating a food one time. The more I do this, the more I really think it’s dairy that has been the root of my issues. And probably eggs. I mean, I haven’t had a bit of dairy – not even butter – in a week, so yeah, I can go without it, but ya know – milk and cheese just add so much to my life. I felt that way about gluten though, and corn… and beef (have I mentioned that beef bothers me and I gave it up about six months ago or so?). Anyway, I’m thinking I can handle it if dairy ends up on the “never” list as well.
  • I had mahi-mahi last night, and had forgotten how much I love it! I think I’ll break open the salmon tonight – maybe I’ve acquired a taste for it in the couple of years since I’ve tried it. lol
  • Aside from my Qdoba exception, I haven’t had any rice or white potatoes in the last week – I think those will be the first foods I add back in, though. I’m hoping those don’t bother me!
  • I have put pineapple and coconut on the “every other day” (or less) list. I don’t really eat those fruits that often anyway, but apparently, when I eat them all the time, they make my tongue feel weird.
  • I guess not eating the things that were really bothering me has made my body more sensitive to the things that only mildly bother me. That’s usually how it goes. Gotta get rid of the big things before one can figure out the little things…

Which, on a side note, is kind of like the Christian walk. When you have a really big sin in your life, you might think everything else is a-okay. Until you get rid of it. Then you start seeing all these “little” things that you didn’t even know you were doing.

Anyway…

I’ll try to keep you posted since I know there are at least a few people who are keeping up with the diet and my symptoms – I’m hoping my experiments can help someone else who is trying to figure out what’s going on in their own body.

As far as symptoms go – that baaaaaad lamb (I can’t not say it that way – remember ‘goat boy’ on SNL? – Oh, I amuse myself…) set me back a few days, but over all, I have had more energy, fewer headaches (the caffeine headaches were gone before I added the green tea back in), and fewer GI troubles. I still have a lot of pain from the fibromyalgia and myofascial issues, and I have had to keep taking painkillers here and there - but I plan on starting my yoga back today and then slowly adding my walks, and evenutally runs, back in… and of course, if Paige starts sleeping through the night on a regular basis, that’ll be HUGE. I hope you people that get 8 or 9 hours of uninterrupted sleep every night don’t take it for granted! :)

For those of you who are wondering “why the heck is she blogging about this stuff?” – I think I’ve said it, but it’s because in my research on what is going on with my body, in trying to figure out all my symptoms (because doctors have pretty much been good for only eliminating possible serious issues with some blood tests, etc., and shoving buckets of prescription drugs at me), I have found it extremely helpful to read other people’s blogs where they have identified symptoms and what has helped and not helped them. So I figure I’d give a little back. I actually am not a fan of talking about all my pains and problems to the general public. I’m one of those people who usually answer “great, how are you?” when people ask me how I’m doing. And it’s not a lie – I really am doing great aside from the pains…

My life is awesome! God has blessed me with a loving husband, six healthy and obedient children, a lovely home, two vehicles that run well and get us where we need to go, food in the pantry, and much, much more. My goal is to get healthy and energetic so that I can serve the aforementioned husband and children better, and others. You know, when I took those spiritual gifts tests several years ago, I scored extremely high in the “server” category, so it’s been kind of a shock to my system (and personality) to not be able to serve for so long. I have learned a lot of lessons these past several years though, and have learned how to be served (which was also a lesson in humility), and my children have learned how to serve more since they’ve had to step it up and help out a lot – especially during the last two pregnancies where I was on bed rest. I thank God for all He has brought me through, and for all the things He has taught me.

Okay, so this has been a rabbit-trail filled post, but my brain is kind of all over the place today anyway. I’m going to take some photos of Darby’s braids later (Britta put 127 braids in her hair, until she ran out of the little rubber bands), and I have other things to post as well, including a movie review post – I know how much you guys appreciate my stellar reviews. ;)

Aaaaand, that’s all I got for ya now – let me know if you have any questions. Have a wonderful rest of your Monday!

Did I promise a story? Ohhhh yeah… Sorry, I’m a busy woman, okay?!  I *had* to organize and label all my medicine pockets in the shoe organizer yesterday (see beautiful photos below – I *heart* organization!), which led to reorganizing/cleaning the pantry, etc.  Not to mention the grocery shopping, laundry, raising children, and all that jazz… Okay, so I probably had time to blog, but when I was on the computer, I was watching the latest episode of Lost and facebooking.  But never fear… the story is coming now!! ;)


(did I mention that I love organization?!)

So, as you know, or maybe you don’t know – whether you know or not isn’t really relevant because I’m about to review – I have been sick lately… in mid-January, I (accidentally) ate some food that disagreed with me, like three times in a week, and that always  makes me really ill, then I took a trip to Arkansas with Marci and Josh to see our Grandma one last time (she ended up passing away before we got there, but it was good to see family even though we didn’t get to say goodbye to her in person).  I came home from that trip and spent two weeks with two types of the flu.  Other family members suffered as well, but it seemed like I fared worse than anyone else. Well, then I was in recovery, just starting to get a little energy back, and I ended up getting mastitis (an infection in the breast).  I was knocked for a loop with that one – fever, nausea, weakness, pain – and had to get on antibiotics, which I am still taking.

Well, Andrew and I were sitting around talking, somewhere between the flu and the mastitis, about how God is working in our lives and how we just want to be used by Him and we were ready for whatever He has for us. (Run-on sentences for $500, Alex!)  We talked about how the Christian walk is a slow, neverending process, about how we never get to a point where we have to stop asking for help, casting our cares on Him, etcetera, and I was saying how I thought it was because that way we wouldn’t get too egotistical and would always remember that we *need* to daily rely on Him for our needs – that it’s not of our own strength that we accomplish anything because without Him we are nothing. 

(This is very summarized, but you – hopefully – get the gist. I’m not always the best at explanations, however, I’m great at rabbit trails!)

Well, we were in the middle of this conversation and both of us had been wondering where it was God was leading us – great things were ahead, we were sure! Then another wave of nausea hit me, and I was like “man, I just can’t shake this flu!” So, I went to the bathroom (you know what’s coming, don’t you? Well, you think you do, but keep reading…)…

I remembered I had an extra pregnancy test under the sink because the one I took telling us I was pregnant with Paige was a two-packer. I am still breastfeeding and haven’t started my womanly cycles yet, not to mention we’ve been pretty careful, but the nausea had been crazy lately, and I had been SO hungry it was ridiculous! So I told Andy, I’m going to take this test, and he basically thought it was silly and a waste (but really, what did I need it for – it’s not like we were trying! Or that we ever plan on trying again!).  I took the test…

I sat it on the counter and immediately blue stripes started appearing.  I kind of stared blankly at it and then told Andy that I don’t have the box anymore and had no idea how to read it (different brands are different and I didn’t retain pregnancy-test-reading knowledge in my brain, apparently). I went downstairs and got online and Andy was wrestling with Jarvis in the same room.  Jarvis looked over just as I got a look of panic on my face, closed the laptop (so the kids wouldn’t see what I was looking at), and went dashing upstairs to see if the test said what the laptop said (Jarvis told me later he knew something was up then).  Sure enough… the test was positive.  We checked and doublechecked, I looked at several websites showing photos of what it was supposed to look like.  Pregnant.

I think in the past, I might have absolutely panicked, cried, been upset, who knows.  I mean – my last pregnancy was awful, the midwife had to hold  my cervix out of the way because it was coming out before Paige, and wow – (we thought) we were so done anyway.  But in light of the conversation we had *just* had, all we could do was laugh. We laughed and laughed and laughed.  We laughed so much over the next few days that we said “if it’s a boy, we should name him Isaac!”

There’s more, but you knew that, didn’t you? Keep reading… :)

Well, for our military insurance, we have to see a regular doctor to get referred to an ob/gyn (a whole other topic), and then I got the mastitis, so I went to the doctor and had them do a confirmation pregnancy test while I was there.  It had been exactly a week since the positive home pregnancy test.  And…

The urine test was negative.  So they ordered a blood test.  After all, people don’t often get false positives, and I have never had a false test at all.  And I was having symptoms!

I waited a day and a half for the results, and they called me telling me that I wasn’t pregnant after all! And I was actually a little sad.  A little relieved, but yeah, a little sad too.  And, really, all my symptoms could be blamed on other things – the nausea on the flu and the mastitis, the hunger on Paige breastfeeding more often because she had been sick, and so on.

But I wasn’t worried.  I wasn’t worried at all.  Which is a big deal.  As far as we knew, God had blessed us with another child.  He didn’t want me living in a spirit of fear, He just wanted me to rely on Him – in *all* things! Even when I thought my body couldn’t handle another pregnancy, even when I was tempted to be scared about having kids so close in age and thought I’d have to stop breastfeeding Paige before either of us was ready, even when an unplanned pregnancy shocked us to silly laughter,  I said, “well, tomorrow I have parent/teacher conferences – I’ll focus on that.” I was determined to just take it one day at a time and give each day to God and praise Him for another baby and another day.

We still don’t know exactly what God holds in store for our future, and while we are still ready and willing to serve Him the way He wants us to serve Him, we’re sure of this – God wants us to raise the six children He has given us for His Glory and to raise them up knowing how to have a personal relationship with Him.  So that is our focus – our children’s hearts.  I have lots of ideas and opinions on the proper way to raise children, and maybe once my kids are grown, *if* they turn out okay, then I’ll write a book – lol – but for now, I’m just focused on daily (trying) to show my children by example what it is to have love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and faithfulness. I often fail, but I just pick myself up and start again the next morning.

And that is my not-so-funny, but kind-of-funny, story.  Sorry to make you wait. ;)

(photo of our very blessed family by Ali McLaughlin)

Well,the wheels are in motion.We have agreed on a price for the house, and just have to do all the technical stuff to get to closing. Yay! Here are a few more photos of the outside, and a video tour of the inside (narrated by my awesome husband). :)

In other news, I had my postpartum appointment, and Paige had her two month checkup. I apparently pulled my groin when I gave birth to Paige, only I didn’t know that’s what the cause of my pain was, so I kept stretching and trying to exercise, and add to that carrying Paige around, sometimes in her carseat, lifting Jacob up, etcetera… and yeah, it wasn’t healing. Even since I figured out what the pain was, I keep aggravating it. Because hello - I can’t stop walking around, you know?!?! But at least now I know not to stretch it and stuff. lol!!

Paige is doing great. She weighs 9 pounds, 12 ounces, and is 22.4″ long. She’s around the 70th percentile for her height, and the 40th for her weight. Tall and thin. :) She hated getting her shots, and I hated her getting them. But she got over it quickly. She rolled over from her back to her belly twice around six or seven weeks old, but hasn’t done it since. She has been smiling real eye-contact smiles since she was two days old, and is very easily amused. She seems to be in a huge hurry to go somewhere, and I’m just like “slow down!! you are my last one!!” :)

The kids and I are getting ready for the move. We leave town in 10 days.

Photos of Darby’s new ‘do coming soon!

And without further ado, I give you the photos and video of our future home. Let me go ahead and state that we WILL be changing the wall colors because WOW with that red and yellow… LOL! And we’ll also be doing some landscaping. I cannot WAIT to get there and make this house our home. :) Oh, and that big nearly finished room in the basement will be split up into Brittany’s room and my office/craft area. The concrete room will be turned into a gym. Did I mention I’m excited?!?! We have never owned a home before. :)

housefront

 

 

 

 

 

houseback

creek

  1. Pepcid Complete works MUCH better for heartburn than Pepcid AC.
  2. Learning how to use your camera properly is worth it.  I just learned how to do a custom white balance (it’s SO easy!) and am kicking myself for not learning it sooner (no more yellow or blue photos!!!).
  3. You don’t have to be on the rest of the world’s schedule.  Do what works for you and your family and stop stressing about what people might think.
  4. Exercise is good for you.  Just do it.
  5. No one is perfect.  Not even you.  Or me.  No one.  Cut a little slack for yourself and others.
  6. We should all try to be our best though.
  7. A couple of years ago, I told you to put lotion on your feet before you put on your socks and you can avoid nasty crustiness.  Have you been doing it?
  8. Take the time to do something you enjoy.
  9. Let go of your grudges.  They are only making you miserable.
  10. It is okay to say “no”.  Try it.  “NO!”  Feels good, doesn’t it?  Only say “yes” to the things you can actually fit into your schedule/want to do/need to do/will be beneficial all the way around/etc.  Saying “yes” out of guilt is no good for anyone (except maybe the person taking advantage of you and putting you on guilt trips).  Just sayin’.
  11. Go out of your way to make at least one person smile each day.
  12. True, genuine, lasting inner-peace, joy, and happiness can only be found through a personal relationship with Jesus Christ which includes following Him, doing His Will, and casting all your cares upon Him.  You may disagree with me, but I truly believe this.

And that is all the deep thoughts for now.  I hope you have been enlightened. :)

p.s. The pregnancy is still going well – Paige is kicking and moving constantly (which is good), her heart rate was awesome at the midwife’s office on Thursday.  I am still in lots of pain, discomfort, alternating between spurts of energy and being completely exhausted, having trouble moving/sitting/lying down, etcetera… but it’s getting closer… in fact, if she wants to come out right now that’d be okay by me!  But I must wait until she is good and ready.  Just praying that it’s sooner rather than later (actually, that’s kind of a lie, sorry - I don’t pray that – I pray that she’ll come out when she is healthy and strong and when it’s God’s perfect timing… I should rephrase the previous statement that I *WISH* it would be sooner rather than later.  lol).  :)

(photo at bottom of post)

We have been talking about trading our old van (a 2001 GMC Safari) in for a while.  We went back and forth, as we recently paid it off (and it’s nice only having one car payment), and it was running well until several weeks ago.  We had some issues with it not starting all the time.  It always started once jumped (a couple of times it had to be jumped by a jump box as another vehicle wouldn’t work, but it always started), and then it would run fine for a little while until it happened again. 

Over the past few weeks, Andy has been doing some work on the vehicles.  His Jeep got new tires and wheels, he replaced the brake pads on both vehicles, changed the oil, worked on the van – making sure the battery was clean and all the wires were connected properly.  And it was running better.  It seemed to have stopped having the “I don’t want to start sometimes” symptom.  But Andy had informed me that we really did need to trade in the van before our cross-country trip this summer.  After examining it, there were just too many things that were getting ready to go wrong.  And it had nearly 95,000 miles on it. 

We found out how much of a loan we could get from our bank (which, if you are in any way related to the military – we highly recommend using USAA for all your banking needs – we love them.  And we have never used the term “love” in the same sentence as the term “bank” before. lol), and had decided we would probably trade the van in around mid-March or so… definitely before Andy leaves at the end of April/beginning of May.

Meanwhile, I was praying that God would give us just the right vehicle for us, and I was doing research online.  I really wanted to get an SUV, something a little more compact but that still would seat 8.  I didn’t want a giant suburban.  I wanted something smaller than what I had.  The extra room is nice when we travel, but it’s just so huge and bulky, and I was really ready for something that was a little easier to maneuver. 

I checked to see what vehicles were in our price range.  I found out what vehicles even had the ability to seat 8 (not a lot).  I started looking at Honda Pilots and Nissan Armadas.  Until I realized I’d have to get one that had as many miles as my current van and was about the same age.  We finally concurred that I’d have to go with a van again.  I could get something newer and nicer with fewer miles for much less money.  I was looking at Honda Odysseys, but really didn’t think I could get one in our price range.  I was hoping we could find something else that at least was smaller than the cargo van I’ve been driving. 

I was tired of researching.  I figured I’d just wait until the baby came, and then Andrew and I could go hike the car lots and see what was there – it’s hard to tell just by looking at online photos anyway.  I was resigned to the fact that it would be at least a few years (after a couple of kids had left the home) before I’d be driving anything remotely “cool”.  lol  But I did continue to pray that God would provide a vehicle for us when we needed it.  And if it had to be another cargo van, so be it.

Which brings us to the story of this week’s trade-in…

On Monday, I actually had a little bit of energy (something that has been eluding me more and more lately).  Andy had been wanting to take me to see a movie (Taken – which was really good, by the way), so we left the kids at home and went to see a movie and planned on hitting the grocery store on the way home.  The movie wasn’t showing at the right time at the movie theater near our house, so we figured – what the heck – let’s go to the one a little further away.  So we drove an extra 25 minutes or so to another theater in a small town.  Normally, we take Andy’s Jeep if it’s just the two of us, but for some reason we decided to take the van this time.  The theater was actually fairly new and very nice, and we enjoyed our movie.  We came out around 6:30 in the evening, and went to drive back to our town and go grocery shopping.  Andy put the key in, and nothing.  It wouldn’t start.  Great…

I silently prayed that God would help us to get the van started and get home while Andy asked the lady that appeared to be just sitting and waiting in the van next to us if she wouldn’t mind jumping our van.  She happily obliged and was very friendly – her husband was in the military too.  We sat there for a while, but the van just was not starting.  We were starting to wonder if the starter had been going out earlier and had finally decided to just kick the bucket.  Finally, the lady had to go to work, so we gave up.  I looked up local auto parts places on my phone – thinking maybe one of them had a jump box that they could run out to us… but they were ALL closed (at 6:45 on a Monday!).  We called a towing company, and they said they would charge us $54.50 to bring their jump box out there and charge the van.  After calling some friends – all of whom either had their phone off, their phone was out of order, or they simply weren’t answering, we decided to just go ahead and pay the towing company to come jump us. 

Andy was absolutely starving by this point (I had been snacking), so I offered to walk to the KFC/A&W across the parking lot while he waited on the tow truck.  He was so hungry that when I asked what he wanted, he just said he didn’t care – anything.  I just went on instinct and got him a big juicy burger with everything on it and a big hot dog dripping with tons of cheese and onions.  I didn’t think about the fact that he had been eating healthy lately.  Yeah – he paid for that one all night (and posted on facebook the next day that he had been poisoned by his wife – lol).  When you eliminate corn syrup, MSG, and other chemicals from your diet – your body doesn’t like it when you fill it with a bunch of fast food disgustingness.  Just fyi.  I felt bad about poisoning him; I was just going by what he would have always ordered prior to the past 6 months or so.  Oops.

Anyway, I came back with the food and the tow truck was there.  He stayed for a while – another super nice guy – but the van wasn’t going to budge.  We were stuck there.  The tow guy suggested we take a cab home and come back in the morning as there was a local auto store that would come to the parking lot and test everything for us.  He was so nice, and when Andy went to pay him, he said “no” – he couldn’t take our money after our van didn’t even start.  So that was a huge blessing!

We called the closest cab company (there was only one nearby) and they said they did not take credit/debit cards – only cash, and to drive us all the way to our house would cost us at least $50, probably more.  We finally realized that was our only course of action at that point since we had no one to come pick us up (no one was answering their phones, remember?).  Andy went on a hunt for an ATM so we would have some cash to pay for the cab.  He came back a little while later – the movie theater (the brand new, big one) didn’t have an ATM.  The local Fred Meyer’s (like a Walmart, only nicer and more expensive) had NO ATM.  Bizarre.  He figured he’d have to jog down the highway to the nearest bank to get the cash.  But for good measure – or who knows why, he figured he’d turn the key one more time. 

The van started right up like it had never had a problem.

We were like “um… okaaaay…”  LOL!  We thanked God for starting the vehicle (since it was obviously Him and not any of the things that we had tried on our own!!!) and we drove home.  Andy and the boys took the Jeep and got the groceries we needed, and we decided that we’d be trading in the van sooner rather than later. 

That brings us to Tuesday.

Andy got home early from work on Tuesday and we were going to take the van to Auto Zone, where they would test the battery and starter for free.  I wanted to just take it and trade it in immediately.  lol.  Circumstances of the day made it so we weren’t able to leave the house until around 2:00 in the afternoon.  We had kids coming home and things we needed to do.  The older kids get home first, so having young children unsupervised wasn’t an issue, but it was also pouring down rain – not the usual drizzle we normally get, but like actually really pouring out there.  All of you know how car hunts can be – they can take hours or days.  But I had energy.  And walking around wasn’t bothering me for the first time in weeks.  Andy thought it might be wise if he just took the van to Auto Zone and then if it wouldn’t start I could bring the Jeep and pick him up.  But something was telling me otherwise.  I said I didn’t want to sink more money into a vehicle we were just going to trade in, but if that is what he wanted to do, then by all means, that was fine.  I was really itching to get out of the house though – and had actually already gotten me and Jacob all ready to go.  He was like “you know what?  Let’s just do it your way.”  Which was kind of out of character for him.  Because “my way” was just to pray God would let the vehicle start and drive straight to a car lot and see what was there.  In the pouring rain.  lol. 

We brought both vehicles (just in case) and we headed out.  I prayed on the way that God would not let the van die, that it would start at the car dealership as well, and that God would bring us to the right car lot with the right sales person (there is a strip with about ten car lots all in a row), and that God would give us the vehicle He wanted us to have and that it would all go quickly and smoothly.

I followed Andy and let him choose which car lot we’d drive into.  Since it was raining so hard, there were no other customers.  The salesman was very nice, and we loaded up in a van (that only seated 7) to drive the car lots (the owner of this one, owned 3 more next to it) and look at all the 8-seaters.  The salesman was skeptical when we gave him our price range and was pretty sure we’d be ending up in another cargo van.  He wanted to sell us a 12 passenger one (uh… that doesn’t really sound smaller than the 8 passenger cargo van I was trading in!).  He kept getting calls from the other sales guys, and it wasn’t looking like they had anything.  We didn’t drive around very long, and he got a call that a Honda Pilot had just been pulled up to the lot.  It was obviously out of our price range and they said it was a 2006.  I said I’d like to look at it anyway, just to see what they looked like, but I knew we couldn’t afford one newer than a 2003, if even that.  We pulled back to the original car lot and the Honda was parked under the awning still running from where they had pulled it up.  It was so pretty.  It was shiny and looked brand new.  We got out to look at it.  It had more space in the back than we had thought – and it was so compact compared to what I had been driving.  We looked inside, and when we opened the doors the radio was blaring – much louder than they usually leave the radios on in cars on car lots.  It was set to the Christian station and “Blessed be the Name of the Lord” was playing!  Wow.  That’s a rare thing in this part of the country, let me tell you!  We were like “yes this is nice, but we can’t afford it”.  The salesman said, “why don’t we test drive it anyway – maybe we can work something out on the price.” We were like “okay, why not?”  I was in love with it.  We got back to the dealership and they figured they would look at how much they’d give us for the van (after looking up kelly blue book, we calculated it at between 2500 and 3000 – not much). 

Well, one thing led to another, and they ended up taking down the price of the Honda AND giving us 7000 for our van (even though they also knew it was not worth that).  They appreciated Andy being in the military and wanted to work with us.  I realize car lots are trying to get rid of cars nowadays, but the amount of money that they came down in order to get us driving off in this car that we can clearly not afford is ridiculous. 

And it was all finalized and I was driving away in my new 2005 Honda Pilot less than three hours after we had left the house!  God made the events of the night before happen so that we would want to trade in our vehicle the next day (when we hadn’t planned on it for at least another month), and made the events of the day happen so we would show up at the car lot at the perfect time – because He knew that the right circumstances and the right car were waiting for us at JUST that right time.  And the praise music that was playing in my new car when I first opened the door was just the icing on the cake!!!

God is amazing, and He was just so evident in working this all out for us.  He is so loving and kind that He decided that even though I don’t *need* a “cool” car or one that is more compact or even one that is this nice, that He said “here you go, here is a gift” and just blessed us above and beyond what we need or deserve.  I am very thankful.  And here is a photo (it’s been raining and snowing since we got it, so it’s not dry or real clean, but you get the idea)… oh, and it handles SO much nicer than the cargo van!  It’s the difference between night and day.  I’m ecstatic about it!! :)

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Psalm 37:4 Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.

edited to add: I forgot to mention that there are less than 34,000 miles on this car (much lower mileage than anything we have seen in our price range – 55,000 or above is what we were seeing as a recurring theme in our price range), AND – pretty much every Pilot I have looked at online has leather seats, well, I am not a leather seat fan (you stick to them in the summer and they are cold in the winter, even though they do come heated in most cars now – I still prefer cloth seats)… and this Pilot, the one that God had waiting for ME, has cloth seats!!!

Real quick…

There is a blog for the baby, Trey, I mentioned in an earlier post, so you can see him, get updates on him, and continue to pray for him: http://prayingfortrey.blogspot.com/

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