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The Name Game.

October 19, 2011 in Brittany, Darby, Jacob, Jarvis, Justice, Paige, Pregnancy by Petra | 2 comments

So, the other day, a friend asked me what my middle name is.  I’ve never kept my middle name a secret, but for some reason, when she asked me, I hesitated.  So I decided to just put it all out here on the blog.  Because inquiring minds want to know.  And because, being pregnant, names are on my mind.

My middle name is…

***drumroll***

Candy

That’s right.  Candy.  Like the food you eat on Halloween.  Or every day.  Depends on who you are.

What’s the story behind my name, you ask?  Okay, I’ll tell you.

My first name is the feminine form of Peter.  Petra means ‘rock’.  It’s also a city in Jordan, and a Christian rock band.  But I was named after Peter.  My six older siblings also have Biblical names – the boys after Bible dudes, and the girls… after Bible dudes (Joel, Joshua, Matthew, Marci [from Mark], Titus, and Timberly [from Timothy].

My middle name is my mom’s first name.  Petra Candy.  Her name is Candy Lovely.  Her mom’s name was Lovely Brownie.  (I’m not making this up).  I always wanted to keep up with the tradition of naming a daughter’s middle name after my first name, but I really liked the name Brittany when I was pregnant with her (and I’m going to just make it known right now that Brittany was NOT a popular name until AFTER I named her – that next year it was like the most popular name… ugh), and Brittany Petra didn’t go together.  So then when I was pregnant with another girl – and I was *sure* it was going to be my last pregnancy (haha!), we decided her middle name would be Petra.  However, when she was born we could NOT decide between Darby and Aliya, so we were like “let’s just use both!” So she is Darby Aliya Petra.

More interesting family names:  My mom’s sister’s name is Cherry.  My great aunt’s name was Love (my sister’s middle name is also Love).  My paternal grandparent’s names were Wilbur and Charlotte… and they lived on a farm.  I remember being  completely intrigued when I read Charlotte’s Web as a kid.

So far my kiddos names are:

Brittany Caitlin (I already had picked out Brittany, but was searching for a middle name – I was looking through the baby name book and my brother, Matt, said “what about Caitlin?” and I looked and that was the next name on the list, spelled the same way he was spelling it, AND I loved it – so Caitlin it was)
Justice Thor (Thor is Andrew’s middle name, and also Andrew’s dad’s first name)
Jarvis Alexander (his first name was going to be Ethan, but then he was born on his Great Uncle Jarvis’ birthday – so we named him after him)
Darby Aliya Petra
Jacob Andrew
Paige Sophia Grace

And the new one?  I always start a boy/girl name list when I find out I’m pregnant (because it takes the entire pregnancy to come up with one we both like and agree on, and plus, it’s fun to name people), and I had two names on the girl list but have since decided I hate them both.  So since I think this baby is a girl, we’ll see if she actually gets a name in the next 32 (or 30 – fingers crossed) weeks.

 

Pregnancy FAQ’s:

October 12, 2011 in Pregnancy by Petra | 10 comments

I get so many questions every time I get pregnant, so I figure I’ll just head most of them off at the pass by providing you with this handy FAQ post.  You’re welcome.

Q: Again?!?!

A: Apparently so.

Q: Aren’t you worried about being pregnant again?  You’ve had some problems (miscarriages, bed rest, rough delivery with Paige)…

A: Matthew 6:24 – “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things.  Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”  and Luke 12:25 – “And which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?”  I don’t really see the point in worrying about what could or might happen, because I serve a God who can get me through another pregnancy (even if it ends up with complications).  Whenever I am tempted to worry, I just “cast all [my] care upon Him” (I Peter 5:7).  If you are worrying about me, then I suggest you cast all your cares upon Him as well.

Q: You’ve got your hands full!  How can you handle another baby?

A: Um, I’m pretty sure 7 is not much different than 6, and so far so good there.

Q: Oh no! How can you take care of a baby with your big helper (Britta) not living with you??

A: I’m the one who raised Britta, and I didn’t have a teenage helper then.  I can handle taking care of a baby without a teenage girl in the house.  Thanks for your vote of confidence though. ;)

Q: Don’t you hate being pregnant?!

A: Why yes, yes I do.  And it’s already an unpleasant experience.  I’m sure I’ll be sharing all my pains and nausea (four days straight of it so far with no end in sight) with you as we go along.  Be excited.

Q: Why is your belly already poking out so far?

A: I guess when you get pregnant for the 13th time, you just start showing immediately after conception.  Half my clothes already don’t fit.  It’s a problem.

Q: Are you guys ever going to stop having kids?

A: I imagine one day we’ll have to.  We weren’t planning on this one, but God apparently wasn’t on the same page, and that’s okay.  I never thought I’d be getting pregnant at age 35, but here we are.  I was having menopausal symptoms before this, so maybe after this baby comes, I will go through the “change” and there will be no more pregnancies.  Only time will tell, and I cannot see the future.

Q: Why didn’t you get your tubes tied??  Or why didn’t Andrew get a vasectomy??  At least go on the pill!

A:  Well – I do not care what form of birth control any of you use.  Seriously – I don’t care (as long as it’s not the kind that causes an abortion – I do care about that).  If you want to cut/burn/alter your innards to be sure that God doesn’t bless you with anymore children, that’s entirely up to you (and maybe you have good reason to do so).  However, Andrew and I decided a long time ago that we were not going to make any permanent changes to our bodies.  I hate being on the pill (a.k.a. filling my body with chemicals that alter all my hormones and moods and make me feel like crap), and don’t even get me started on condoms.  Natural family planning has always worked for us aside from this time and last time – both times when my cycle was all crazy (see previous post) so I lost track of ovulation time.  Eh.  Whatever.  Obviously (as pointed out earlier) God wanted us to conceive again, since the ONE time I miscalculated ended up with a baby.  ;)

Q: How can you start over???  You know you won’t be getting any sleep… ever… right?!

A: I love babies.  Andrew loves babies.  We had actually been seriously discussing adoption when we found out I am pregnant.  If I hadn’t had all the problems I have had and didn’t hate pregnancy so much?  We’d have never even done the “natural planning” method and would have been cranking babies out like crazy.  Seriously – we’d probably have 14 kids by now if it hadn’t been for my health issues!  We LOVE them.  Some women complain about the newborn stage, but not me.  I would lose sleep over a tiny newborn every single day of my life!  (of course, if I wasn’t sleeping EVER, then I’d have to give up some other things in order to nap during the day – lol)

Q: Don’t you know what causes that?!

A: Seriously, even though I said I would punch anyone in the mouth that asked me that question – I’ll go ahead and answer.  The answer is YES… and God has blessed me with a husband who enjoys making babies with me and vice versa.  Our beautiful, sensuous, hot, exciting love-making causes babies, and we don’t plan on quitting anytime soon.  Anymore questions on that topic?  Didn’t think so.

Q: Is this a post-deployment baby?  I knew you were going to get pregnant on that vacation!  That’s when it happened, isn’t it?

A: No.  You were wrong.  While we did enjoy one another on our vacation, this happened right around September 10th, an average day in our existence.  Andrew had been home for a month and a half, and even if he’d been home for a year and a half – we are still intimate regularly.  Not just when we’re on vacation or when we haven’t seen each other in a while.  It always causes me to be curious when people ask these sorts of things – do they not have sex on a regular basis?  Maybe they should seek some marital counseling.  Or read I Corinthians 7:5.

Q: How can you afford all these kids?

A: We can’t…      However, God has mercifully provided for us time and time again, and we figure He’s not going to stop now.

Q: Can I rub your belly?

A: That depends.  Are you in my very-close-knit circle of family/friends?  If you are unsure, then please ask before groping me.  My friend, Molly, apparently had no question about whether or not she was in this circle since she manhandled me at church this past Sunday.  Martha was witness.

Q: Are you eating enough? (and/or) Are you gaining enough weight?

A: For those of you who think I need to gain 815 pounds while pregnant – what’s wrong with you?  I have gained the proper amount of weight for pregnancy EVERY SINGLE TIME (between 24 and 32 pounds, if you must know – and before you tell me 24 pounds doesn’t meet the required “25 pound minimum”… that pregnancy was Justice, who was born at 35 weeks).  Please stop telling me I’m not fat enough.  Because I am.  (Again — just heading this one off at the pass, from prior experience) ;)

Q: Are you excited?

A: Yes!!! We view children as a blessing from God (see: the Bible), and are completely open to whatever He has for us.  We love all our children at all ages and are excited for the opportunity to raise yet another one!  :)

p.s. I realize this addresses mostly questions with negative connotations, but you would be amazed at how many negative comments/questions I have gotten since pregnancy #3!  I’m going to refer all negative comments for the duration of the pregnancy to this blog post.  For all of you who have been nothing but positive, encouraging, and loving – I thank you.  ;)

Surprise!

October 11, 2011 in Pregnancy by Petra | 13 comments

So, apparently, if you are having early menopausal symptoms, and your cycles are all wonky… it’s probably not the best time to use “natural family planning” as your preferred method of birth control.  Because if you do, then you might, hypothetically, have a conversation like this [bracketed phrases have been paraphrased for your tender ears/eyes]:

her: “I’m ovulating… oh crap – [we weren't careful] two days ago!!!

him: “well, it’s been two days – we should be fine.”

her: “THOSE SUCKERS CAN LIVE UP TO FIVE DAYS!!!”

Then, again —> hypothetically, you might forget that conversation happened and go on with your way-too-busy life, overlooking symptoms such as being “bloated” and super tired and the fact that you can smell EVERYthing, because you’ve been having crazy symptoms for months anyways!

Then, a few weeks later, for instance, you might go to your scheduled doctor’s appointment (because you’ve already been and had ultrasounds of your lady innards that came back wonky), and have a conversation something like this:

doc: “I want to do a biopsy of your uterine lining, but I want to do a pregnancy test first.  I don’t think you are pregnant, but we need to be sure.”

her: “ok”

*pees in a cup – waits in the room*

doc: “well, the test was positive.”

her: *looks at doctor like she just said “there’s a unicorn in the hallway”* (then remembers the conversation from a few weeks ago)

doc: “so let’s do an ultrasound instead of a biopsy”

So then they do an ultrasound, and take 6,748 tubes of blood out of you and make you come back two days later for more blood, and a week later for another ultrasound…

So, yeah, all that to say this:

Today, at the doctor, I saw our 6 week, 1 day old baby and heard/saw a strong heartbeat.  We’re going to do some progesterone fun (a.k.a. it doesn’t sound fun) in the form of  ”gel” to hopefully help get me through the first trimester (since, ya know, I’ve had six miscarriages and all).  Due date is June 4th.

FAQ’s will be addressed in the next blog post.  If you have questions you want added to that list, make a comment – however, just a warning, if you say “don’t you know what causes that?”, I might have to punch you in the mouth… ya know, lovingly – in a tough love kind of way – cause you might possibly be an idiot.  Of course I know what causes it.  I had a freaking 12 day period and absentmindedly lost track of when I was going to ovulate!  It could happen to anyone!  ;)

the month of March

March 28, 2011 in Animals, Brittany, Children, Darby, Jacob, Jarvis, Justice, Lists, Paige, Pregnancy, sleep problems by Petra | 4 comments

I am aware that I haven’t blogged in over a month. I haven’t felt like it. Sue me. Or don’t. I don’t really care. :) To make up for it, this post is going to cover all the happenings of March. If you are my friend on Facebook, much of this will be a repeat, but as you know – part of the reason I blog is for the online-journal aspect of it. I am actually referencing Facebook (along with my calendar) to remind me of what actually did happen this month. :)
 
I will also note, before I get started on my review, that I have been incredibly aware of God’s incredible grace this month.  He is so amazing, and He loves us no matter how much we might fail.  I am just in awe of His goodness, His strength, His mercy, and as said already, His grace.  Awesome!

March:
1: Took Darby to gymnastics and Jarvis to soccer. Hung out on Facebook a lot.
2: Who knows? Took the kids to church in the evening.
3: Had an OB appointment. Everything looked good, until she went to listen for the baby’s heartbeat. Ended up getting an ultrasound, only to find out that little baby Mila had passed away. Sad day. I was 13 weeks, 2 days along, but she had not been alive for a few weeks. The reason my belly was growing and I was still feeling so many pregnancy symptoms is because my uterus and placenta were still thriving.
4: Brittany and I headed to the hospital at 10:30 for my D&C. I was really nervous, having never had surgery on anything before except getting my wisdom teeth cut out. All went well, though, and it was quick and smooth. Over the next few days, friends from church brought meals to us (so nice!). Marci drove up from Atlanta to help out. So good to see her!
5: Stayed drugged up and slept a lot! Karyn and Jess brought over tonight’s meal and stayed and hung out for a while. Marci took the kids out eating, shopping, and to see a movie. They LOVED having her here.  They bought green hats and wigs and came into my room with flowers – to make me laugh.  I was groggy and half-asleep and had no idea what was going on.  It was hilarious.  :)

Jacob in his funny hair and hat :)

Britta and Darby :)

Britta, Marci, and Darby :)

6: Marci took all six kiddos to church, then to eat and grocery shopping.  I slept so much in a very quiet house – it was nice!  Marci headed back to Georgia.  (soccer game was rained out today).
7: Still recovering. Out of bed today and feeling a lot better.  Talked to Andy on the phone a lot.  Had other things to deal with as well, but not blog fodder (sorry).  :-D
8: Took Darby to gymnastics.  Did lots of resting, as far as I can remember.
9: Had a small nervous breakdown (hormones changing, I’m sure) and couldn’t stop crying.  It finally passed though, thank goodness – because I HATE crying.  And I’m using the word “hate” here, in the strongest sense of the word.  So thankful for an ecouraging husband, who, even though he is on the other side of the world, called at just the right time and was such a comfort to me.  And also thankful for good friends (like Ali) who will yak on the phone with me for hours and who I can be completely open with.  :)   Bought Paige’s Easter dress while talking on the phone to Ali.  Took the kids to church (Paige and I don’t go to church on Wednesday nights – I drop the oldest 5 kids off for an hour and a half and Paige and I head home… why?  our church has Kids Klub for Jacob and Darby and youth group for Jarvis, Justice, and Brittany.  There is a ladies’ Bible study, and I have been to it, but it’s not really geared towards my age group [i.e. I'm the youngest woman in there by very far], and I have found that I love spending that one on one time with Paige without interruption.) :)
10: My new dishwasher was delivered.  It will sit in the front room while we wait for my neighbor to have time to install it (he’s busy).  Jarvis had an orthodontist consult.  Not quite time to start braces, but there is a plan in place, and we go back in 4 months to see if his mouth is ready.  Had some other things going on that aren’t blog-worthy (again, sorry).  Soccer practice got rained out, so I took Brittany and Jarvis to see The Adjustment Bureau.  It was good.
11: Rested in the morning.  My kids were all in desperate need of new shoes or clothes or a combination of the two, and I had some tax refund money, along with some other unexpected income, come in.  Jarvis was the first one to get to go shopping, since I owed him a birthday movie anyway.  We went to Jason’s Deli, Target, Marshall’s, and to see Unknown.  Loved it.
12: Dropped Justice off early at Molly’s yard sale to sell a few things.  Took Brittany and Darby shopping.  Ate at Jason’s Deli (again – ugh).  Shopped at Marshall’s, Old Navy, and Target.  Found lots of good deals!  And we all got new swimsuits (shopping for those is always a nightmare!  And why is the Target dressing room lighting the HARSHEST lighting in the world?!). 
13: Sunday School and church.  Brittany and Jacob went with Molly to a friend’s house to play (Britt went to help with the little kiddos).  I took Darby and Paige to Jarvis’ soccer game.  Didn’t get home in time for evening church. 

Paige at Jarvis' soccer game

Darby at Jarvis' soccer game

Jarvis playing soccer

Paige playing peekaboo with her sunglasses :)

14: Various errands, including getting my annual car inspection (and found out I’d been driving around with a giant screw stuck in my tire). 
15: Darby to gymnastics.  Got a ride for Jarvis to soccer so I could take Justice on his shopping trip.  We splurged and ate at Carrabba’s (so good! BUT I got glutened there and ended up feeling bad for the next few days - ugh!).  Shopped at Target, TJ Maxx, and Kohl’s – found everything he needed. 
16: Various errands and dropping kids off places (I have been leaving out a lot of things like this on this list).  Darby’s orthodontist consult.  She could really use ortho treatment now, probably make it a lot easier down the line, but alas – it turns out our insurance only covers ortho treatment ONCE per lifetime (and only a small percentage then), so we are waiting.  If Jarvis wasn’t about to get braces, we might go for it, but yeah – that’s a bit much.  Dropped off the kiddos at church in the evening. 

Jacob being a nut at Darby's ortho consult... Darby in the dental chair in the background :)

Paige with her "I don't feel good cause I'm teething and my nose is runny" look

17: Justice did yard work at someone’s house – he’s done a LOT of that this month.  He spends most of his money on Papa John’s ordering.  Dropped Jarvis off at soccer practice, and then headed out on the town with the Mollster.  Ate a yummy dinner at Bonefish Grill (love me some saucy shrimp! mmmmm!) and got some Starbucks and headed home. 

cell phone self-portraits are the best, no? lol. Ali will be shocked I was actually wearing a ruffled shirt!

my attempt at taking a self-portrait of Molly and me at Starbucks. Worked out well, don't you think?

18: Haven’t been getting much sleep – aside from not being able to fall asleep at a reasonable hour, Paige has been teething (2 year molars) and that’s been interrupting her sleep. Even with the sleep issues, my energy has been increasing, though.  Starting to get a LOT done around the house.  Had a couple months worth of deep cleaning to catch up on, we are rearranging some kids’ rooms, doing some construction, etc. 
19: Worked around the house.  Kids played outside.  Weather has been gorgeous!  Jarvis fell off the neighbor’s playground (er, JUMPED from the roof of the playground to a rope swing, which broke when he grabbed it so he hit the ground).  Dropped Justice off at the church for Winterjam.  They didn’t make it in though, it was sold out and many thousands of fans didn’t get in. 

Dance party!

pouty pajama time

20: Sunday School and Church.  Luncheon at church.  Got a ton of stuff done at the house.  The boys had a couple of friends over and played airsoft, etc.  Jarvis missed his soccer game because of his hurt foot, and it happened to be the first game they lost all season.  Justice and my very helpful neighbor installed my awesome new dishwasher!  It’s so so so nice to have a dishwasher after not having one for almost a year!!!

Paige the Mess. (photo by darby)

Cutie! (photo by darby)

Paige's first time with painted fingernails and toenails. She LOVED it! (photo by darby)

My attempt at photos of the kids after church - sun too bright, kids hungry, Jarvis missing (on the couch with a hurt foot), etc... not ideal photography conditions. lol

Jacob needs his sunglasses!

Paige insisted on being on the step with Jacob and Darby!

The expressions say everything!

Britt attempted to take a few photos of me (for the hubster, and also for the "before" hairdo)

another photo by Britt

21: Aside from some errands and cleaning, took some time to myself.  Went and got a real, actual haircut.  She ended up giving me too many layers, but that’s my own fault (I wasn’t specific enough).  My friend, Jess, came by for a few and chatted and dropped off some eggs (she’s been keeping us in stock since they have chickens and we love FRESH eggs).  :)   Went to a movie by myself, saw Limitless – loved it. 

Britt attempting to get a photo of my hairdo. It looks better in real life. Much.

Attempt #2

Attempt #3? :)

Our kitten - pretty sure it's current name is Ninja. I liked Odin better. But it's not my kitten.

My bathroom mirror attempts with my cell phone to get a pic of the new do...

Last attempt to show you people my new hairdo!

22: Darby to gymnastics.  Took Jacob with me and bought him some new tennis shoes, flip flops, and sunglasses – all things he desperately needed.  After we picked up Darby from gymnastics, I took the two of them through an automatic car wash.  Jacob had never known such a thing existed and I’m pretty sure it’s the most exciting thing that’s ever happened to him.  Best 9 bucks I’ve spent in a while!  (p.s.  When did it start costing NINE bucks for an automatic car wash?!?!).  Took Jarvis to the doctor to get an x-ray for his foot that was still bothering him.  No brake – just a sprain, thank goodness! 
(you only need to watch the first 4 seconds of the following video to see Darby’s cartwheel – I kept recording thinking something else would happen, lol…)

(apparently I’ve become retarded when it comes to embedding youtube videos – either that or WordPress has become more difficult – either way, you’ll have to click on the link: Darby\’s cartwheel)

23: Got stuff done around the house, ran errands, etc.  Got to church a little early to pick up the kids and it was a gorgeous evening, so Paige and I swung on the playground swings while we waited.  Paige LOVES the swings.  She’s too cute.  My cell phone takes horrible photos, especially at night:

Paige swinging

24: Took Justice and Jarvis to the dentist.  Justice had been hurting since his last filling – they made a small adjustment and the pain automatically went away – yay.  Jarvis had to get a filling.  Worked on kids’ bedrooms (a seemingly neverending project).
25: Clean, clean, clean.  (had to cancel/postpone our trip to Atlanta).
26: Dropped Justice off to do some yard work and then I went grocery shopping.  Felt pretty under the weather and didn’t get much done the rest of the day. 
27: Did nothing.  All day.  Felt ick.
28: Today – not much going on.  Going to try to get some major bedroom work done today, but still feeling pretty blah.
29: Tomorrow – the usual gymnastics and soccer practice. 
30: Kids will go to church.
31: No plans. 

And that concludes March in Review.  I hope you enjoyed the show.

Witty title?! You can’t *handle* the witty title!

February 17, 2011 in Celiac, Darby, Fibromyalgia, Jacob, Jarvis, Justice, Paige, Pregnancy, Random by Petra | 4 comments

I thought I’d blog more while Andrew was deployed, but so far, most of my online time has been spent chatting with him on the instant messenger.  It’s been really nice that we have been able to chat every day!

If only I could post on here by osmosis.  I think of posts all the time, especially when I’m falling asleep (those are the best ones, even though I rarely remember to actually ever post them), but I can’t be bothered to log on and type what I’m thinking most of the time.  Sorry.  :)   One day I will blog interesting things again.  One day.  For now, you’re stuck with my mundane update lists, which I add for posterity’s sake. 

  • The pregnancy is going well.  I’m not nearly as sick as the last time I posted, but have gotten glutened twice and caught a cold from a couple of the kiddos.  I’m starting to feel human again, though, and my nausea is down to a wave here and there throughout the day instead of constant 24/7.  Thank the Lord, because that was really starting to get old. 
  • Justice finished the basketball season, and Jarvis’ first spring soccer game is this Sunday afternoon. 
  • Paige just keeps getting cuter!  She repeats so much of what the other kids do (which they think is awesome), and she is talking more and more.  Her little voice and the way she says things is adorable.  And her outlook on life is hilarious.  She gets so serious sometimes and so silly at other times.  She’s cuddling more, which we LOVE, and she still thinks drawing is the best thing ever – on paper, on her legs, on the walls – anywhere… she’s not picky. 
  • Brittany and I tried Z Pizza yesterday, in Cary.  It was good – I loved that most of their ingredients are organic.  I did not love the price, but gluten-free pizza is never cheap.  Best of all – it did not make me sick!  Score!
  • We should, according to the IRS, have our tax refund a week from tomorrow.  Looking forward to paying some things, buying some things, and of course, looking forward to the shopping that goes along with “buying some things”.  I love to shop, but alas, with six children, most of my shopping usually consists of trying to find affordable shoes for them or trying to keep our pantry stocked.  It’s so fun when we get a chance to do a little ‘extra’.  :)
  • Not sure if I mentioned it here or not, but we finally seem to have figured out Darby’s digestion issues.  The culprit is dairy.  She seems to be able to handle small amounts in baked goods, but too much milk or cheese and she’s in major pain and having all sorts of stomach issues.  I’m glad for her sake it isn’t gluten – I think dairy is a little easier to avoid. 
  • The jury is still out on Paige… I think she has some food issues, unfortunately, but I’m not sure yet what they are.  She doesn’t eat gluten very often because I can’t have her contaminating me with her messy gluteny hands and face, but when she does have it, that’s not really when I notice any issues.  I may just have to wait until she is older.  She has some digestion problems sometimes, but not all the time like Jacob did when he was little, and she has some ‘patchy’ dry skin issues (which is almost always food related, though it could be environmental, but I use very pure detergents, etc., so probably some sort of food bothering her). 
  • Speaking of issues – I have read and heard in multiple locations that pregnancy is supposed to ease the symptoms of celiac disease, however, I seem to be MORE sensitive when pregnant.  Also, I have heard that fibromyalgia symptoms are supposed to ease up while pregnant as well – um, no – mine are MUCH worse.  Of course, my masseuse is in Iraq, so that might have a little to do with the fibro symptoms being worse.  Still… I really do hate the head fogs, and I’ve had a lot of them lately, whereas before the pregnancy, I was really having them less and less.  And the pain… don’t even get me started. 
  • Not to sound like a complainer – I really am very blessed, and so far, have not had to be on bed rest for this pregnancy.  With Jacob and Paige, I had to do some bed rest during the first trimesters for bleeding.  I did have some spotting last week, but I laid down for a full day and a half, and then everything was fine again with no issues since!  I’m hoping and praying that I won’t have to be on bed rest for the third trimester, but we’ll cross that bridge when we come to it.  I try not to think about the third trimester too much, because it hasn’t been long enough for me to forget about the third trimester with Paige, which was absolutely the most brutal thing ever – well, aside from her delivery, but I’m pretty sure this baby can’t top that one!  At least I hope not!!  ;)   Too bad I can’t go back in time and appreciate my first four pregnancies more than I did – and I thought I had things to complain about THEN – ha!! haaaahhhaaaaahahahaaa!!!!!  :)
  • Speaking of trimesters, I’ve got about 5 days left of the first trimester.  I’m already starting to have a bit more energy – ya know, when I’m not glutened or down with a bad cold.  I’m hoping to get some projects around here done – hoping!  :)
  • We plan on taking a trip to Atlanta in a month or so.  Can’t wait to see everyone, and to do some shopping with Andrea at H&M Maternity and Buy Buy Baby! :)
  • I get to see my friend Ali tomorrow in Raleigh!  She’s coming to town for a wedding, so we’re going to meet up for lunch before the festivities start.  Can’t wait!  I wish we lived closer!
  • Then, we’re (me and the kiddos) going to hang out in Raleigh and let Jarvis pick the activity, since tomorrow is also his 12th birthday!
  • And I’ve zoned out – time for some netflix and snacks! :)

Well… I… walked around the corner, and I walked around the block…

January 29, 2011 in Jarvis, Justice, Paige, Pregnancy by Petra | 4 comments

Pregnancy…

  • Well, I’m currently wearing a pair of Andrew’s running pants, if that tells you anything about the state of how my clothes are fitting.  And, of course, they are enormous.  But, they are comfy on my belly, and that’s all I care about while lounging around the house.
  • I had an ultrasound on Thursday.  There is only one baby, and I’m so grateful, because if I’m already this uncomfortable with one at 8 1/2 weeks, I don’t even want to think about how two would feel in another 10 or 20 weeks!
  • The heart rate was 155.  I’m pretty positive the baby is a girl.  Faster heart rate, lots of nausea = girl.  For me anyway; I know some people who get super nauseous with the boys and not the girls. Funny how pregnancies affect different people so differently, huh?
  • And yeah, the nausea is out of control.  This baby does not like meat, eggs, zucchini, and a myriad of other things.  She does tolerate cashews, cheddar cheese, broccoli, peas, carrots, peanut butter, and several types of fruit, so that’s basically what I’ve been living on.  Also, snickerdoodles are okay – I think it’s to do with the cinnamon.  I drink fruit smoothies with strawberries, blueberries, milk, a bit of cinnamon and organic sugar, and those actually help the nausea for a bit.  The longer I go without eating, the worse the nausea is, but then it’s hard to eat because of the nausea.  It’s a vicious cycle.  And it doesn’t stop – I even wake up in the middle of the night feeling nauseous.  Thankfully, I’ve only thrown up a little bit a couple of times… trying to avoid that as much as possible!
  • A few people have already said things to me about how it was too bad I’d be hugely pregnant through the hot summer, but uh – I would MUCH rather be huge in the summer than the winter.  I’ve done both, and this baby is coming at the perfect time!!!  I can barely tolerate the cold, and I hate wearing frumpy clothes – especially when already uncomfortably pregnant – so sunshine and sundresses during pregnancy suit me perfectly.  I’m very thankful for the timing!  The only “too bad” about it is that I won’t be able to get out and about more during my favorite season!! ;)
  • I’m exhausted and I can tell my blood sugar is starting to act wonky.  Ah, the joys of pregnancy.  Is it September yet?? :)

The kiddos…

  • Justice has one more week of basketball left – two games next Saturday.  I love watching him play.  I’ll try to remember my camera next week since I have taken zero photos so far. 
  • Jarvis started soccer practice today.  His first game in the spring season is February 20th.  I hope it’s warm!! :)
  • The kids tried telling Paige there is a baby in my belly, and she looked at them like they were nuts. 

I had more to say, and I definitely have more topics to blog about, but I’m too tired to go on.  It’s been a really long day, and I think I am now out of order until Sunday morning.

“I like to get it all again and in the end you know you get what you got…”

January 26, 2011 in Animals, Being a military wife, Celiac, Darby, Jacob, Justice, Paige, Pregnancy by Petra | 3 comments

It dawned on my I haven’t been blogging for the last few weeks.  I guess all my internet typing time has been spent i.m.’ing with Andrew.  So… a quick update…

  • I got glutened the other day.  I haven’t had this bad of a gluten attack in a very long time.  I’m on my 3rd day of a migraine and major intestinal issues (among the other symptoms that go along with me consuming gluten).  I’m only blogging now because I finally gave in and took a Goody’s powder (it has aspirin, and I’m pregnant, so I had been avoiding it – even though it’s the only thing that’ll take any of the edge off a migraine like this… it was just too much though, so I decided to go ahead and take one today).  Hopefully tomorrow will be better…
  • My first OB appointment is at 9:00 tomorrow morning.  I’m not even sure which doctor I’m seeing.  I requested one, Tricare assigned another, and they weren’t clear who I was seeing when they called to tell me when my first appointment was.  I’ll just go to whomever they assigned, and if I don’t like them – I’ll be sure to switch.  I just hope it’s a woman!  I used to see male OB/Gyn’s, but it kind of creeps me out now, and I prefer to stick to women.  I’m also hoping for an ultrasound!
  • Andrew is alive and well on the other side of the world.  We have thankfully gotten to chat on the instant messenger pretty much every day, and have even gotten to have a few short phone calls.  Being able to communicate with him regularly helps us get through this time apart.  Continue to pray for him, please. 
  • Paige’s favorite show right now is The Backyardigans.  She copies their dance moves, and sings along with the theme song.  To ask to watch it, she will sing her version of the theme song, which sounds kind of like “yah-ah-gan” in her sweet little singing voice. 
  • Justice is halfway through his basketball season and he is doing great!  He started off his 2nd game this past Saturday with a 3-pointer.  Woo hoo!  I love watching him play!
  • I am 8 weeks, 1 day pregnant, assuming I have my due date correct, which I’m pretty sure I do.  I still have approximately one million weeks to go.  At least, that’s what it feels like.  :)   I’m still ridiculously nauseous and exhausted.  Hoping this passes with the first trimester – another month to go!  :)
  • Justice and Jarvis got all but two pieces of furniture moved out of the office/school room in the basement.  I’m hoping to feel good enough to get down there with the older kids and get some work done, eventually.  It would be SO nice to have a place for all our school stuff, a place for my bill stuff, a place to do scrapbooking and cards, etc.  I may let the older kids have at priming the walls themselves… we’ll see.  lol
  • We gave away one kitten (the orange one), and we are giving away the fluffy calico one this week.  That’ll just leave us with Chili (the mom), and Odin (the 3rd kitten).  Chili is actually in heat again so she is forbidden from going outside!  Pretty sure I’m going to work getting her fixed into the near-future budget!  ;)
  • I have so many photos to share – hoping to have the focus to be able to go through them and post them in the foreseeable future.  Stay tuned.  I’ll try to add at least one photo to this post. 
  • I’ve been watching more TV than usual since I got pregnant.  When I’m feeling awful, it helps to just zone out to senseless nonsense.  I enjoy the show Lie to Me and am nearly caught up to the current episodes.  I just started watching the first season of the Duggars, 17 and Counting, two days ago, and I’m already addicted.  I didn’t realize I would enjoy it so I never even gave it a try, but I saw it on netflix and clicked it, and ended up watching several episodes already.  I started watching Law & Order: Criminal Intent again too – I abandoned it in the middle of the 2nd season when I was pregnant with Paige and on bedrest, but it’s time to bring it back.  I don’t really love the show, but I love Vincent D’onofrio’s character. 
  • Jacob had a blast at his 5th birthday party last week!  It was his first “friend” birthday party, and he was definitely a fan.  I posted the photos on facebook already, but will try to add a few on here eventually too (so that they’re here when I print my blog into a ‘book’ for the kids).  :)
  • I’m pretty sure it’s nap time. 

Darby with her new bangs that she's so proud of

5 weeks, 2 days

January 6, 2011 in Pregnancy by Petra | 15 comments

This is the first of many posts documenting this pregnancy.  Today’s topic:

Why we think this baby might be twins!

1. I’ve been ridiculously nauseous every day since the day of conception (especially after about day four – I thought the mild nausea the first three days was due to some gluten-free crackers that I ate).  When I have had nausea in my previous pregnancies, it’s always been after the five or six week point, and it’s always been with the girls.  (So if this is just one baby, I do think it’s a girl.)

2. I had a vividly positive pregnancy test five days before my period was even due.

3. My belly is already protruding.  I know I’ve had lots of babies already, but never has my belly poked out THIS early.  (see photo below)

4. I’m exhausted.  I’m always exhausted in my first trimester, but the exhaustion set in almost immediately, and usually I’m at LEAST six weeks along before I’m too tired to function. 

5. My temperature at the doc yesterday was 97.7.  I don’t know if that actually means anything or not.  However, my temperature has always been 98.6 whether I was pregnant or not (unless, of course, I had some sort of illness).  I did read somewhere that if you are pregnant with multiples your body temperature could be lower, and generally if you are pregnant with a single baby, your temperature would be a bit higher – not lower… I have no idea of any of the science behind any of this though.  It could just be a fluke.

6. We kept saying “we are done having children.”  So it just stands to reason that God would point out our silliness in thinking we had control over anything by giving us not just one more child, but two.  lol

7. I already have a lot of pressure in my lower abdomen.  My uterus does sit low after so many pregnancies, but it seems to be a bit early for so much pressure and discomfort!

The protruding belly:

 

Maybe that doesn’t seem like it’s poking out to you guys, but let me put it in perspective for you… Before Thanksgiving, I weighed 98 pounds.  I was trying to gain a few pounds (my preferred weight is 103-105 – keep in mind I am only 5’2″ and have a small frame).  I do think I gained a pound or two before conceiving (I ate a LOT during and after Thanksgiving), but my stomach was pretty much flat – I had been exercising regularly and was starting to get in shape, and my stomach is always the first to thin out/tone up.  A week ago, I weighed 101 1/2, and last night, I weighed 102 1/2.  I am rapidly gaining, and I don’t usually gain much in the first trimester, so to have already gained at least 2 or 3 pounds already, and to have my belly poking out so much is suspicious. 

Oh, and although there is much controversy as to how much genetics plays into having twins, here’s the scoop:  My maternal grandfather was a twin and Andrew was possibly a twin (his mom suspects to have miscarried his twin).  Also, my sister miscarried a twin when she was pregnant with one of her boys. 

I’m hoping the new OB gives me an ultrasound at my first visit and doesn’t make me wait until 20 weeks!! lol

So what do you think?  Do you think I’m just paranoid?  Do you think there is more than one baby in there? 

 

Home again, home again, jiggety jig…

December 28, 2010 in Andrew, Christmas, Military, Pregnancy by Petra | 8 comments

We are home after eight days in Tennessee, and it is so nice.  I do wish we had left the house immaculate, but alas, we weren’t able to (December has been incredibly busy!).  Andy and the kids got the car unloaded already, though, and the kids and I have put a lot of it away, and the laundry is going.  But it’s time to relax.  Well, and I have to take Justice to basketball practice in 30 minutes ~ no rest for the weary ~ lol.  :)

Here is a quick update, and a promise of good intentions to post more detailed updates and photos very soon…

  • Andrew leaves very soon, and won’t be back until summer.  Please pray for all of us ~ it would be much appreciated.
  • We came home to snow.  Apparently there was 6 to 8 inches while we were gone, but there is only a couple of inches out there now.  Three of the kids are outside playing in it now.  They are sad they missed it.  Hopefully they’ll get another big snow this year that they can play in! :)
  • Christmas in Tennessee was wonderful!  We saw lots of family and a couple of friends (wish we’d had time to see more!), and everyone was so hospitable and kind.  I’m so glad we went!!  There will be more details of our trip to come when I post the photos.
  • Since I wrote the first paragraph, Andrew got home from the store and is taking Justice to ball practice for me – yay! :)
  • And last but not least, for those of you who haven’t checked facebook lately ~ we are expecting #7.  Not planned, we thought we were done, but our lives are in God’s Hands, and we are open to whatever He wants for us.  I love babies and children, and honestly, I think I’ve mentioned before, that if my pregnancies were even a little bit easier, we’d probably have a dozen kids by now (on purpose).  So… just giving it all to God, and am still in a little bit of shock (lol), but it doesn’t even matter if this is the worst pregnancy yet because every child is a gift from God and we are excited.  :)   {how’s that for some run-on sentences?}

And that’s all for now…

the joy of the Lord is my strength…

February 18, 2010 in Andrew, Children, Christianity, Organization, Pregnancy by Petra | 11 comments

Did I promise a story? Ohhhh yeah… Sorry, I’m a busy woman, okay?!  I *had* to organize and label all my medicine pockets in the shoe organizer yesterday (see beautiful photos below – I *heart* organization!), which led to reorganizing/cleaning the pantry, etc.  Not to mention the grocery shopping, laundry, raising children, and all that jazz… Okay, so I probably had time to blog, but when I was on the computer, I was watching the latest episode of Lost and facebooking.  But never fear… the story is coming now!! ;)


(did I mention that I love organization?!)

So, as you know, or maybe you don’t know – whether you know or not isn’t really relevant because I’m about to review – I have been sick lately… in mid-January, I (accidentally) ate some food that disagreed with me, like three times in a week, and that always  makes me really ill, then I took a trip to Arkansas with Marci and Josh to see our Grandma one last time (she ended up passing away before we got there, but it was good to see family even though we didn’t get to say goodbye to her in person).  I came home from that trip and spent two weeks with two types of the flu.  Other family members suffered as well, but it seemed like I fared worse than anyone else. Well, then I was in recovery, just starting to get a little energy back, and I ended up getting mastitis (an infection in the breast).  I was knocked for a loop with that one – fever, nausea, weakness, pain – and had to get on antibiotics, which I am still taking.

Well, Andrew and I were sitting around talking, somewhere between the flu and the mastitis, about how God is working in our lives and how we just want to be used by Him and we were ready for whatever He has for us. (Run-on sentences for $500, Alex!)  We talked about how the Christian walk is a slow, neverending process, about how we never get to a point where we have to stop asking for help, casting our cares on Him, etcetera, and I was saying how I thought it was because that way we wouldn’t get too egotistical and would always remember that we *need* to daily rely on Him for our needs – that it’s not of our own strength that we accomplish anything because without Him we are nothing. 

(This is very summarized, but you – hopefully – get the gist. I’m not always the best at explanations, however, I’m great at rabbit trails!)

Well, we were in the middle of this conversation and both of us had been wondering where it was God was leading us – great things were ahead, we were sure! Then another wave of nausea hit me, and I was like “man, I just can’t shake this flu!” So, I went to the bathroom (you know what’s coming, don’t you? Well, you think you do, but keep reading…)…

I remembered I had an extra pregnancy test under the sink because the one I took telling us I was pregnant with Paige was a two-packer. I am still breastfeeding and haven’t started my womanly cycles yet, not to mention we’ve been pretty careful, but the nausea had been crazy lately, and I had been SO hungry it was ridiculous! So I told Andy, I’m going to take this test, and he basically thought it was silly and a waste (but really, what did I need it for – it’s not like we were trying! Or that we ever plan on trying again!).  I took the test…

I sat it on the counter and immediately blue stripes started appearing.  I kind of stared blankly at it and then told Andy that I don’t have the box anymore and had no idea how to read it (different brands are different and I didn’t retain pregnancy-test-reading knowledge in my brain, apparently). I went downstairs and got online and Andy was wrestling with Jarvis in the same room.  Jarvis looked over just as I got a look of panic on my face, closed the laptop (so the kids wouldn’t see what I was looking at), and went dashing upstairs to see if the test said what the laptop said (Jarvis told me later he knew something was up then).  Sure enough… the test was positive.  We checked and doublechecked, I looked at several websites showing photos of what it was supposed to look like.  Pregnant.

I think in the past, I might have absolutely panicked, cried, been upset, who knows.  I mean – my last pregnancy was awful, the midwife had to hold  my cervix out of the way because it was coming out before Paige, and wow – (we thought) we were so done anyway.  But in light of the conversation we had *just* had, all we could do was laugh. We laughed and laughed and laughed.  We laughed so much over the next few days that we said “if it’s a boy, we should name him Isaac!”

There’s more, but you knew that, didn’t you? Keep reading… :)

Well, for our military insurance, we have to see a regular doctor to get referred to an ob/gyn (a whole other topic), and then I got the mastitis, so I went to the doctor and had them do a confirmation pregnancy test while I was there.  It had been exactly a week since the positive home pregnancy test.  And…

The urine test was negative.  So they ordered a blood test.  After all, people don’t often get false positives, and I have never had a false test at all.  And I was having symptoms!

I waited a day and a half for the results, and they called me telling me that I wasn’t pregnant after all! And I was actually a little sad.  A little relieved, but yeah, a little sad too.  And, really, all my symptoms could be blamed on other things – the nausea on the flu and the mastitis, the hunger on Paige breastfeeding more often because she had been sick, and so on.

But I wasn’t worried.  I wasn’t worried at all.  Which is a big deal.  As far as we knew, God had blessed us with another child.  He didn’t want me living in a spirit of fear, He just wanted me to rely on Him – in *all* things! Even when I thought my body couldn’t handle another pregnancy, even when I was tempted to be scared about having kids so close in age and thought I’d have to stop breastfeeding Paige before either of us was ready, even when an unplanned pregnancy shocked us to silly laughter,  I said, “well, tomorrow I have parent/teacher conferences – I’ll focus on that.” I was determined to just take it one day at a time and give each day to God and praise Him for another baby and another day.

We still don’t know exactly what God holds in store for our future, and while we are still ready and willing to serve Him the way He wants us to serve Him, we’re sure of this – God wants us to raise the six children He has given us for His Glory and to raise them up knowing how to have a personal relationship with Him.  So that is our focus – our children’s hearts.  I have lots of ideas and opinions on the proper way to raise children, and maybe once my kids are grown, *if* they turn out okay, then I’ll write a book – lol – but for now, I’m just focused on daily (trying) to show my children by example what it is to have love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and faithfulness. I often fail, but I just pick myself up and start again the next morning.

And that is my not-so-funny, but kind-of-funny, story.  Sorry to make you wait. ;)

(photo of our very blessed family by Ali McLaughlin)

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