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I just got home from dropping Brittany and Justice off at the local Christian high school (and by “just”, I mean “20 minutes ago”).  The state of North Carolina requires that all homeschoolers take annual tests, and one of the few choices is the Stanford Achievement Tests.  Our neighbors work at the Christian school – where they happen to take the SAT’s, so they helped us get the kids in for testing this year.  I have all sorts of questions like “why is it required to take these tests each year?” and “what could possibly be so special about the tests that they cost $100 per student to take them?”, but that’s not the point of this post. 

I set three alarms for this morning.  There were two other people in my room with me.  My alarm always goes off and it’s always loud, even if the volume is turned down.  This morning, I heard none of them, and neither did the two kids in my room with me.  Granted, I was awake until after 2:30 this morning, but still – I should have heard the alarms.  The only thing I heard was Justice yelling, “MOM! IT’S 7:53!!!”  Yes, we were supposed to BE there by 7:50.  *sigh*

I jumped out of bed, yelled to Justice to wake up Brittany and Jarvis (Jarvis was staying with the little kids while I took the older two to the school – Jarvis and Darby will join them for three more days of testing next week), and I went to call the school.  I couldn’t get in touch with the lady I had been dealing with when I registered the kids for testing, so I called my neighbor.  She, thankfully, answered her cell phone, and she was able to ask if we could even still come – they said come on.  So we threw clothes on and ran out the door with no breakfast (don’t the schools always emphasize eating a good breakfast on test day?). 

We got there at 8:10 and finally found the church office (my sweet neighbor had told me where it was, but alas, my brain wasn’t even turned on yet after being awake for only 17 minutes by this point). 

As we walked in, I looked at Brittany and realized she had grabbed some fitted skinny jeans and a t-shirt with a monkey band on them (not the band, The Monkees, from the days of yore, but a Paul Frank monkey band), but had a hoodie zipped up over the shirt, so at least there was that.  I’m pretty sure she wasn’t anywhere close to the school’s dress code for girls.  Justice had asked the neighbor what he should wear yesterday – he said the conversation went like this:

Justice – “what should I wear tomorrow?”
Neighbor – “just wear a nice shirt and some khakis” (note: the school kids wear uniforms of khaki pants and polos – plaid skirts for the girls)
Justice – “I don’t have any khakis”
Neighbor – “how do you not have khakis?!”
Justice – “I don’t like them”
Neighbor – “well, what kind of pants do you have?”
Justice – “um, jeans?”
Neighbor – “what else?”
Justice – “uhhh, that’s it?”
Neighbor – “ok, well, just wear your nicest jeans then”

The relay of this conversation tells me that Brittany’s outift was probably inappropriate for her environment today.  Oh well.  At least her hair isn’t pink anymore!  :)

Quick update…

  • Paige went to the doctor this morning for her 18 month old checkup, and according to her doctor (who we love, by the way!) Paige is perfect.  We already knew that though.  She had to get one shot today, but the nurse was fast, so while she did scream for a minute, she was soon fine.  She weighs 21 pounds (10th %), and is 29 1/2″ tall (5th %).  Her head?  It’s still large.  It’s 19 or 19 1/2″ (I can’t remember which) and that, my friends, is in the 90th %.  Tiny body, huge head. For that big brain, I presume.
  • Britta Cait started babysitting for a local MOPS group.  Today was her first day, and they meet once a month.  She had a great time.  She loves little kids, and she loves making money = a great combo. 
  • Britta also turned 17 last week.  More to come on that (and also I have photos from Justice’s birthday celebration last month.  Patience, young padawans, patience).
  • Have I mentioned how much I love my kids?  Yes?  Well, I’m saying it again.  God has blessed us so much with six amazing kiddos, I just can’t believe it most of the time.  They all show me and Andy such love and respect (absolutely no slamming doors or “I hate you”‘s in this house), they all want to serve God, and they all love spending time with us.  That may sound ‘normal’ to some of you, but I know a lot of people who struggle with their teenagers (and a lot of people who struggle with their pre-teens and toddlers too), and it just makes me so thankful to have loving, well-behaved kids.  They are not perfect, of course (no one is), but they are an enormous blessing to me and I thank God for them all.
  • Homeschooling is going swimmingly (pretty sure that’s the first time I’ve ever used that word).  I’m enjoying it, the kids are enjoying it – so awesome.  The kids are all learning (which is more than I can say for their previous public school educations), and our schedule is going great.  Total answer to prayer – all of it!!!
  • Construction is still ongoing.  Andrew finished building the walls in the main room of the basement (school room/office/craft area), and just needs to do one more round of mudding and sanding – then we paint and put a new floor in.  We decided on a laminate floor for that room and Brittany’s room after looking at cost, where it was in the house, how much wear it would get, etc… but we’ll put a tiled area by the back door since rumor has it that laminate flooring does not do well when it gets wet. 
  • We have gotten more involved in our church and are loving it.  The people are wonderful, the kids love it, and we just know it’s exactly where God wants us to be.  Awesome.
  • Britta is going on a missions trip with some people from our church at the end of this month.  They are heading to New York City to do some ministering to others.  Please be prayingn for them.
  • Jacob has turned into a social butterfly!  He used to be SO shy and just wanted to be with me all the time, but he has changed SO much in the past 6 months or so.  He just wants to play with his friends, invite them over, go see them, go to church, and of course… marry Katie, my friend Robyn’s daughter.
  • Aaaaand since I’ve been interrupted no less than 47 times since the start of this post, I’ll go ahead and close with a couple of photos from my brother Matt’s house… :)

Paige walking around Uncle Matt's house like she owned the place. :)

Justice and Tanner in the 'mud pit' at Uncle Matt's house - the boys had a BLAST!

Canyon, Justice, Tanner, and Chance

Poor Jarvis was sick on the mud pit day. :(

Jacob LOVED the swimming pool and hot tub!

Darby and Taylor :)

Taking turns on each other's shoulders in the pool :)

Taylor's turn on Darby's shoulders... so fun to have a cousin so close in age!

Britta apparently beating up Canyon. lol

More mud pit fun (that's Canyon and Britta if you can't tell)

I know it’s been a while, but diving into new schedules, full-force homeschooling, a road trip, and a stomach bug have kept me away from the blog.  I should be around for a while though, so expect more frequent posts.  {here is where you jump up and down and cheer}

For today, I have a list update followed by a bunch of party photos (more photos ready to share over the next several days too)… hopefully tomorrow I’ll think of something that will be inspirational and blow your mind.  Let’s play that one by ear though, okay? Okay.

  • We love our new homeschool schedule.  We get up in time to have two hours for breakfast, exercising, Bible study, and getting ready for the day before our schoolwork begins.  We did a week-long test run, then interrupted for a trip, but will get back to it this coming Monday.
  • We had a great trip to Atlanta visiting my siblings and nieces and nephews.  Wonderful times were had by all.  My kids LOVE hanging out with their cousins – we wish we lived closer so they could see them more often.
  • We stayed with my brother and sister-in-law (Matt & Carolyn).  They are so nice and hospitable, and my kids love their kids, their house, their animals, their pool, etc… :) [Thanks for letting us stay guys!]
  • Gideon (my great-nephew) is SO adorable.  His first birthday party was the reason for the trip, and he just couldn’t be cuter.
  • Isn’t it funny how traveling makes you appreciate your own bed/pillow/blankets?  I have slept like a rock the past two nights!!! :)
  • Andrew is finished with school and is at his new job now.  My prayer is that he loves it!  He’ll be deployed a lot, but that’s part of the downside to being in the military.
  • The kids (the five oldest) started their Wednesday night programs at church last night.  Britta and Jarvis missed it because they weren’t feeling well, but the other three kids had a great time!
  • We passed around a stomach bug.  It was kind of brutal for some of us, but short-lived.  I’ll take super painful/gross for a day over less ill for a week though.  I prefer just getting it all out of the way at once.
  • Andrew got a lot of work done in the office/school room while the kids and I were in Atlanta.  He rocks! 
  • Now there’s a lot of sanding to do and then we prime.  Andrew had to build some walls, and then drywall and he got all that done plus mudding.
  • I was sick the day I was supposed to shop at the Atlanta IKEA with friends/family, but on the way back home Tuesday, I stopped at the Charlotte IKEA and was able to do about an hour and a half of shopping.  It was fabulous.  I LOVE that store!! I didn’t spend too much (although if I HAD more to spend, I certainly WOULD have – lol), but I got some much needed items for the kitchen (glasses, kids dishes, mixing bowls, can opener, platter, cute napkins – yes cute napkins were much needed – haha), and I got toilet bowl brushes (hey – they are only 99 cents and are much cuter than the 3 dollar ones at Walmart or Target!) and I got some $20 desks for my three oldest kids to use for their schoolwork.  So score!
  • While at IKEA, it was kind of late (we were there from 7:30 to 9:00 pm), and when I let Paige out of the cart in the kid’s section, she climbed into the toddler beds and took her shoes off, laid down and tried to sleep.  She got mad when we wouldn’t let her go to sleep.  She was like “hey – I haven’t seen my own bed in weeks” (it was only 5 days, but that’s a long time to a baby)… “I’m tired, and this bed is comfy – why can’t I sleep here?!”  She’s so adorable.  AND I found the toddler bed I want to get for her – as soon as I have the extra cash, I’m going to head back to IKEA and get it!  It will go perfectly in her newly painted room!!  AND it stretches out to a twin bed for when she grows, so it’ll be a good investment.  :)
  • I have a few things I want to sell on craigslist or ebay, but it is SUCH a hassle to do that type of thing anymore.  Does anyone want to do it for me?  I’ll probably just end up giving those items away – so much easier. lol
  • I really love our house – have I mentioned that?  I’m so thankful to have a house of our own (I mean, it belongs to the bank currently – but we are not renting for the first time ever).  I love being able to paint it, I love having all this space (we’ve lived in some pretty cramped places in the past), I love our neighborhood for the most part… it’s just nice.  :)
  • I need to make my meal plan and grocery list for this pay period.  Any suggestions for cheap and easy meals that will feed 8 and are gluten-free?  Please post them. 

Paige wasn't so sure about the ball pit at first, but she liked it later.

Sweet Taylor. Darby had a blast playing with her all weekend!

The uncooperative duo. Marci was trying to get them to re-create their old "fight stance" photos, but they refused. Oh well.

Adam and Andrea.

Gideon and his Grandma.

Paige getting cupcake all over Aunt Marci's shirt.

Canyon, Jarvis, and Nathaniel.

The Van Meters. Some of my favorite people in the wide world.

Me & Andrea dressed alike. Again. Never planned. (because why on earth would be plan to match? that would be weird.)

Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday dear Gideon. Happy birthday to you. (whew. so glad to get that out. only Andrea understands.)

Paige and Andrea. Paige was kind of a grumpypants that day.

Me and four of my six siblings.

A lot of Goodling cousins. Missing Tori, Cory, Tim, Matt, Lauren, Olivia, & Alia.

The LaMontagnes and Van Meters.

Matt and Carolyn. My wonderful brother and his sweet wife. I just love them!

My sister, Marci, and one of my best friends in the world.

Paige liked the ball pit with Darby and Taylor in there playing too.

The Joshinator. Looking forward to his Thanksgiving visit!

Jacob. I mean, Wolverine. I didn't get a better photo of the sticks. I mean, claws.

She was absolutely filthy (and SO sweaty) by the time the party was over!

They did not allow me to get a good photo of them together. Next time, next time.

Back at Gideon's house - he's such a rock star, he loved the drum sticks one of his little baby friends gave him for his birthday.

Another attempt at a photo of the two of them, but Paige is just looking at Gideon like "why are you on my mommy?!?!" lol

Lists are our friends.

  1. Andy’s parents and sister came for a visit this week, and we had a blast. I definitely hit the jackpot when it comes to in-laws. And I’m not just saying that because they read my blog. I really, truly mean it. Love them!

    It was more difficult than it should have been to take this photo - lol.

    I had to use the flash to get a semi-decent shot. Ideally, I'd have taken this photo during daylight when everyone was all fixed up (note the freshly bathed, pajama'd three in front), but alas, I forgot to even touch my camera during their whole visit until the last possible second).

  2. Darby got baptized on Sunday morning (and Andy’s family was here to see – so cool)!  So proud of her that she genuinely wants to follow Jesus.  :)

    Darby was too short to see much during the actual baptism, but I managed to take her photo just after. :)

    Getting her baptism certificate (I was using Andy's point&shoot camera and I have no idea how to work that thing - lol)

  3. Jarvis had his first (soccer) scrimmage with another team last night and he did great. Looking forward to his games, which start in about three weeks.
  4. Have I mentioned our school plans on my blog? If not, fyi (and for prosperity’s sake), we are homeschooling all the kids this year. That’ll be 5 kids. Homeschooled. Grades K, 4, 7, 9, and 12.  Once we start, if you don’t hear from me for a while, check in and make sure I’m still alive and sane, would you? ;)   Seriously though - I’m looking forward to it. We aren’t ‘officially’ starting for a couple more weeks-ish, but are doing some things to prepare such as diagnostic testing (starting today). 
  5. I went to Darby and Jarvis’ old schools yesterday to withdraw them (school started today — what? you don’t wait until the last possible minute to do things? whatever.), and my decision was just completely confirmed.  Ahhhh… feels good to be doing the right thing for your family. 
  6. And please don’t take that last sentence to mean that I think everyone should homeschool. I definitely do not feel that way.  But I do know that this is the right thing for OUR family right now. 
  7. I caught the Dojo Sensei in Mousehunt a few days ago. Exciting, right?
  8. As you know, my iPhone got wet.  So sad.  I did manage to get it working again, but the LCD screen is all smeared and ruined. I can only barely see 1/2 the screen, and when I try to turn it on, I can’t slide the bar to get to the main menu.  So it’s useless to me.  It’s okay, you can cry too.
  9. Since I don’t have a few hundred dollars set aside for replacing phones, Andrew found his 5 year old Motorola Razr L7.  We charged it, and lo and behold it works. So, I have a phone now, which is nice.  The downside is that I have to pay the iPhone $30 monthly fee until April, when my contract ends, and it’ll probably be April before I can afford another iPhone.  Oh well.  At least I can check my yahoo mail on the Razr, and set alarms on the calendar.  I’m just happy to be able to talk and text again – not that I talk/text often, but it’s nice to have the option.
  10. Note to self: record Brittany playing the piano and post it. She totally rocks.
  11. (disclaimer: this point includes the words ‘breast’ and ‘mastitis’… move on to the next point if you aren’t interested)… A few weeks ago, I cut down on the amount of times per day that Paige nursed, thinking that I’d wean her by 18 months.  She got down to nursing 3 or 4 times a day (at bed time, nap time, sometimes in the morning, and sometimes if she woke up in the middle of the night).  Well, then she started teething again (and no, those eye teeth haven’t poked through yet), and she wanted to nurse ALL THE TIME.  So I accomodated her since it seemed to comfort her, and my milk supply went up again.  Then, one day, about a week and a half ago, she refused to nurse.  Ever again.  She went from getting my milk supply WAY up to absolutely nothing.  With no warning whatsoever.  It was so weird. Anyway, so that led to mastitis in BOTH breasts (fun for me), which I quickly nipped in the bud with garlic, but because of the process of going cold turkey on the breastfeeding, it was kind of a long week or so.  I did pump a few times for relief, but I’ve never had much luck with pumping (and I hate doing it).  I’m finally feeling ‘normal’ and my energy is starting to return.  Thankfully.
  12. I made some barbecue chicken when Andy’s family was here that turned out really great, if I do say so myself.  I’ve been struggling trying to find a barbecue sauce that we all like that is 1. gluten-free, 2. chemical-free, and 3. corn-free. Corn-free is nearly impossible to find.  The last barbecue chicken I had made was kind of gross – dry and the sauce not tasty (an organic Annie’s sauce – I do not recommend).  And of course, we had company when I made it (so sorry Pastor Josh and Trisha! I’ll make a better main course next time!  Not that you read my blog, but just in case… I really can make chicken taste good. lol).  Anyway… the homemade barbecue sauce had rave reviews, it cooked well with the chicken, which came out really moist and wonderful, and of course, I have no idea how I made it.  I did write down all the ingredients I used, but amounts?  Who knows?  I just threw stuff in there until it smelled right.  If I can replicate it, I’ll share the recipe. 
  13. Speaking of corn-free… have you seen King Corn?  We watched that the other day.  Other food documentaries I’ve watched lately are Food, Inc. and The Beautiful Truth.  I recommend them all (and they can all be found on netflix’s instant play list).  Watch them, make changes, and stop killing yourself by ingesting poison.  When we’re all old and I am clear-headed and healthy (because hopefully I made my changes before it was too late – my health is slowly but surely improving), and when you have Alzheimer’s because you thought I was nuts for eating organic and not using harsh chemicals in my home?  I’ll say “I told you so!” and you won’t have a clue what I’m talking about because the dementia will be so bad, but I’ll say it anyway and you’ll say “who are you again?” and the nurse will come wipe your drool and wheel you away and I’ll go for a jog.
  14. Yes, the correct spelling of ‘BBQ’ or ‘barbeque’ is actually ‘barbecue’.  In case you are judging my spelling of the word in point number 12.  Not that I’m ever very aware of grammar on my blog, but misspelled words is a pet peeve of mine.  Fragments and run-on sentences are okay though.  Unless I’m writing a book – in that case, I’d be more careful with my grammar.  Believe it or not, I do understand proper grammar.  I really am qualified to teach it to my children.  :)
  15. That last point was FULL of terrible grammar.
  16. Did I blog about Josh’s visit last week?  I think I just posted a few photos from our trip to the capitol (in the things-I-love post).  Well, Josh visited last week and we had a great visit.  Jacob thinks Uncle Josh hung the moon and gets a little hyper excited when Josh is around.  What can you do?  He’s four.

    Britta and Josh imitating Justice on the bench. lol

  17. Darby and Paige wore matching dresses to church on Sunday – and of course, these were the only two photos that I got.  I’ll have to make them wear them again and take some real photos. Darby was the one that picked out their clothes, so don’t be all “why are you forcing your children to match” on me – it was HER idea! ;)  (dresses are complements of our good friend Robyn who passes her girls’ clothes down to my girls). :)

    Paige is tugging at her face in the one on the right, which explains why her eye looks all wonky. lol

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